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7 Things to Keep in Mind When Choosing a Psychologist

Misbah has done her Bachelor’s degree in Psychology. She has access to a wide range of mental health experts who treat mental illness.

A positive relationship between the therapist and the patient is critical to the success of psychological therapy. This is the foundation for building the confidence needed to work through internal conflicts, the commitment to complete assigned tasks and advice, and the desired positive outcomes. However, getting into this relationship can be more difficult than you think.

It's not easy to find a good psychologist. What's the best way to deal with this? Knowing who will treat your problem allows you to go in with a more open mind, a more positive attitude, and without creating expectations that may lead to disappointment if you are not satisfied in the way you expect.

Why Is It Essential to Know Who We Go to Psychological Therapy With?

Ignorance or lack of information about the work to be done is one of the main reasons why the patient-therapist relationship fails. The client may discover that the psychologist's approach style does not suit their needs or that they do not feel completely at ease once the consultation is completed and the parameters are established.

As a result, the patient's defensive posture will affect future work, or they will simply stop coming and have a negative impression of psychological therapy.

So, nowadays, many therapists offer their services on their websites or through social media, where they discuss their influences, specializations, and articles on treatments and psychological approaches, which helps to get a first impression of the therapist and thus ease anticipated anxiety, have a clear vision of what to expect and have more confidence to share your problems with them.

Even if you have collected all of the information you need about the psychologist you plan to see, it is very important that you speak directly with your consultant about how their specialty and assistance can be suited to your needs and solve the problem once you get there.

It is important to put shame aside and clarify any doubts you may have about the investment you are about to make; after all, you are going to work with the said psychologist for your mental and integral well-being. And that is exactly why you go to therapy in the first place: to improve, not to weaken.

7 Things You Should Keep in Mind When Choosing a Psychologist

Seek with sincerity

As we all know, there are a variety of mental health specialists, ranging from motivational coaches to psychotherapists, psychologists, and psychiatrists, each with their own area of expertise. So, if you don't feel comfortable in psychological therapy, you may need to seek treatment from another specialist; be honest with your therapist and let him help you.

Finding a professional who specializes in your problem or has an ideal approach to it is a good way to ensure an ideal therapeutic relationship with a psychologist. This will lessen your fear of the unknown and increase your chances of getting a positive outcome from these sessions.

Make it professional

Although this may seem very obvious, many people overlook this key element when seeking psychological help for the first time. It is essential that you confirm that he is a qualified specialist in a psychological field relevant to your problem; this will help you avoid misunderstandings and ensure that you improve.

Another important reason why the patient-therapist relationship fails is because of differences in the intervention, in the sense that things can be taken for granted in the first session, and the intervention is the absolute opposite of what is required. To avoid this, ask them to describe the strategy, including what important issues they will cover, how they will implement it, and how long it will last.

Browse the Internet

As I stated earlier, searching for a psychologist on the internet is a good way to reduce anxiety and anticipatory doubts about going to one. Thousands of psychologists have social media pages, websites, and blogs where they promote their services and write about a variety of topics that can increase empathy and provide assurance that this is the approach you need to solve your particular problem.

Evaluate and browse

Evaluate and browse

Don't get obsessed

As you may know that there are different psychological schools of thought, approaches, techniques that evolve over time, so don't limit yourself to one that you have read about or are familiar with. Maybe your problem could be solved using a completely different approach or a combination of approaches.

If you prefer to insure in person, you can learn more about the psychologists who work there and their approaches by visiting a psychological health center or the psychology section of a clinic or the Hospital. You'll feel more confident and have more options on the table this way.

Lower your expectations if needed

It is not bad to have a prior idea in mind of how you want the issues to arise or how you would like the relationship with your psychologist to be, but you must know that this may not be exactly as you have imagined it. This does not mean that it's something bad. What you must ensure is that the path they take is advantageous for you and that although it is difficult to face, the results will be valuable instead of making you feel worse.

Share your experience and thoughts

If you have already seen a psychologist and have not had a positive experience, tell your current psychologist so that he does not follow the same path. If you are seeing a psychologist for the first time, talk about what you want to achieve.

If you have any prior experiences, it is critical that you share them with your psychologist. So let him know what you're thinking and what you're afraid of. Tell him how you're feeling and what's bothering you. Tell him what offends you, what makes you happy, and how you'd like him to work with you. Clear everything from doubts to expectations.

Evaluate and discover

They say the first impression is the last impression, and in the case of psychological therapy, it's quite true. You can discover a lot of things from your first therapy session. In it, you can see the interest of the psychologist in your case. If you have confidence and safety in their clinic, if there is a connection, if he is responsible, and especially, is he professional. You may also evaluate whether he judges you or is personally involved more than necessary.

It is very important that you consolidate the issue of confidentiality with your psychologist. Everything you say in therapy should stay in the clinic and not leave those walls unless they need support for an approach or have to recommend another specialist. However, if this case occurs, the psychologist is obliged to inform you.

Conclusion

In summary, to ensure you choose an ideal psychologist, you need to be knowledgeable about who he is and his expertise. Keep in mind (or write) any doubt you have, and go for it with the best possible attitude.

Always be open and honest with your psychologist so that he can provide you with the best possible care. The psychologist will identify the most effective psychological therapy for you, taking into account your personality, way of life, family, and job needs, as well as the factors that lead to any mental disease.

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2021 Misbah Sheikh

Comments

Misbah Sheikh (author) from The World of Rebels. on September 25, 2021:

Thank you so much for your support, Peggy. Yes, finding a good psychologist is a key to good outcomes. Much appreciated. Stay blessed and safe.

Blessings and love to you!!

Peggy Woods from Houston, Texas on September 25, 2021:

Your tips are excellent. A person first has to want to be helped and be open with a psychologist to attain good results. Finding good ones are key to good outcomes.

Misbah Sheikh (author) from The World of Rebels. on September 24, 2021:

It's not easy to find a good psychologist. Here are 7 things to Keep in mind when choosing a Psychologist.

Misbah Sheikh (author) from The World of Rebels. on June 15, 2021:

Hi Flourish, Yes you are right. Thanks for reading and sharing your thoughts, I appreciate.

Blessings to you

FlourishAnyway from USA on June 15, 2021:

People can often find a good therapist by talking to friends or their family doctor for a referral.

Misbah Sheikh (author) from The World of Rebels. on June 14, 2021:

Thank you very much, Rawan. I am glad you found it useful.

Blessings!!

Misbah Sheikh (author) from The World of Rebels. on June 14, 2021:

Thanks for your kind words, Devika. I am glad you liked my ideas. Have a wonderful week ahead

Many Blessings and Love

Rawan Osama from Egypt on June 13, 2021:

Its very useful. Thanks for sharing

Devika Primić from Dubrovnik, Croatia on June 13, 2021:

Misbah Your ideas are useful and valuable points on choosing a Psychologist. It is important to know who one is sharing their personal issues to and you make that quite clear on choosing some one that one can trust as well. Thank you for this information.

Misbah Sheikh (author) from The World of Rebels. on June 13, 2021:

Thank you for your kind comment, Tobe. I am glad you liked it. Many Blessings to you

Peace Tobe Dike from Delta State, Nigeria. on June 13, 2021:

Thank you for this insightful article,Misbah...thank you for sharing.

Misbah Sheikh (author) from The World of Rebels. on June 13, 2021:

Hi, Mr. Bill, Thank you so much for taking the time to leave such a thoughtful and nice response. I'm happy to learn that it does not apply to you. I'm glad you will be sharing the information with those who need help. Highly appreciated. Gratitude, Sir

Have a Superb Sunday

Highest Blessings to you

Misbah Sheikh (author) from The World of Rebels. on June 13, 2021:

Hi, Priya, I am glad to see a comment from you. I am glad to know that you found this article to be true. Yes, the attitude of the psychologist towards his patient matters a lot. Satisfaction, Trust, Privacy, and Understanding the patient without judging him are the key elements of a good psychologist. I am glad you liked it. Thank you for sharing your personal experience with me. I highly appreciate that. You are always welcome to share your thoughts. Have a peaceful Sunday

God Bless you and keeps you safe.

Misbah Sheikh (author) from The World of Rebels. on June 13, 2021:

Thank you so much, Srushti. I am glad you liked it. I hope it would be helpful to someone in need. Have a wonderful Sunday

Blessings !!

Bill Holland from Olympia, WA on June 13, 2021:

Excellent information, my friend. It does not apply to me, but I have several extended family members who have sought such help. I will pass this article on to them.

Thank you very much, and blessings to you always.

Priya from Pune on June 13, 2021:

Your article is great. I am myself facing anxiety and depression for the past 6-7 years so I know the importance of psychological counseling. Counseling can only be effective if you feel safe and secure with the counselor and have trust. It is also very important that the counselor should not judge you otherwise it can cause an adverse effect.

Very informative article.

Srushti Gamit on June 13, 2021:

Thank you for sharing such detailed and useful article Misbah. This article will definitely help someone who is in need.

Keep writing and god bless you

Misbah Sheikh (author) from The World of Rebels. on June 13, 2021:

Rosina, thank you so much for your beautiful and kind response. I'm glad you think the article can help people in finding the right psychologist. I hope that the information in this article will be useful to someone who is in need. Have a Joyful Monday!

Blessings and Love

Misbah Sheikh (author) from The World of Rebels. on June 13, 2021:

Thank you, Eman. I am happy you found it helpful.

Blessings and love!!

Misbah Sheikh (author) from The World of Rebels. on June 13, 2021:

Thank you so much, Rozlin. I am glad you found it helpful and informative. Much Love!

Blessings

Misbah Sheikh (author) from The World of Rebels. on June 13, 2021:

Thank you so much for your kind comment, Pamela. I am glad that you are healthy and don't have any reason to see a psychologist. I'm hoping that the information in this article will be useful to someone who is in need. God Bless you. Have a wonderful Monday!

Many Blessings and Love

Rosina S Khan on June 13, 2021:

Great tips on how to choose an ideal psychologist. This article would benefit those who suffer from psychological problems or issues. Thanks for sharing, Misbah.

Nian from Pakistan on June 13, 2021:

Very helpful article.

Thanks for sharing, Misbah.

Love and Blessings to you!

Rozlin from UAE on June 13, 2021:

A very informative and helpful hub, Misbah. Thanks for sharing.

Blessings and love

Pamela Oglesby from Sunny Florida on June 13, 2021:

This is a very informative article. Fortunately, I have had no reason to see a psychologist, but they are important for many people. I have a relative who went through a tough divorce, so the psychologist was very helpful.

Love and blessings.

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